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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #60 - 12.09.2003 at 12:34:04
 
t wrote on 12.09.2003 at 12:28:04:
to je izkustveno vedenje


(kar pa za bolj zelena pokopališča ne drži)


Si že probal kdaj gledati s srcem oz. videti?
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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #61 - 12.09.2003 at 12:41:50
 
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Si že probal kdaj gledati s srcem oz. videti?




menda ja


(čeprav se mi zdi za to metafora gledanja s srcem precej bedna)


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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #62 - 12.09.2003 at 12:58:03
 
Marsikatera vsevednost (kao) se izkaže za bednost.
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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #63 - 12.09.2003 at 12:59:54
 
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Marsikatera vsevednost (kao) se izkaže za bednost.

littlestar, a ti vidis, gledas s srcem? si vsevedna?  
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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #64 - 12.09.2003 at 13:13:12
 
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Marsikatera vsevednost (kao) se izkaže za bednost.




Kiss končno Zvezdica!

pa ti si razsvetljena  8)


to sem od tebe hotel slišati  Kiss



Če boli, to ni ljubezen / res je (vsekakor huda vednost)

(moraš res priti do visoke stopnje za takšno vednost)

če boli, je bolečina Roll Eyes


uživajte!
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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #65 - 12.09.2003 at 14:32:09
 
LJUBEZEN BOLI Roll Eyes, isto tako kot resnica,
BUT IT SETS YOU FREE

ten-ney, hočeš rečt, to si hotel od SEBE slišat? 8)
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Re: If it hurts, it's not love
Reply #66 - 12.09.2003 at 14:53:08
 
tako kot ima elektrika dve uporabi, lahko npr. hladi ali pa greje, tko tudi ljubezen osvobaja, ali pa pogojuje. ce je narobe "centrirana" (usmerjena) ornk pogoji, ce je pravilno pa osvobodi.
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Reply #67 - 13.09.2003 at 13:52:26
 
BEING TRUE TO MYSELF MEANS I CANNOT BE FALSE TO ANYONE


When we are true to ourself and stand in our own centre, we have a natural direction and purpose to our life. Sometimes, people around us become uncomfortable when we are in our centre because living our truth reawakens them. It asks them not to live comfortably in areas where they are stuck in roles and duties. Even though we make them uncomfortable, we are not being false to them. Being truly committed to ourself makes it impossible to betray anyone because truth for ourself allows us to extend the truth to others; it allows them to take their next step also.


Today, take a look at all the different areas where you could be truer to yourself. Where something is difficult, you are not being true to yourself. It is also important to note that it is not necessarily what you are doing that may be untrue, it may be how you are doing it. Sometimes, you may be doing something for approval that seems to help you in the short run, but will lead to failure in the long run. In areas where you are true to yourself, you are receiving, and things naturally flow with a certain ease, so now is the time to be true to yourself. By living this truth, you are true to everyone else.
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Reply #68 - 14.09.2003 at 12:28:09
 
I AM ALWAYS IN THE PERFECT PLACE TO LEARN THE LESSON I MOST NEED TO LEARN


Everything is connected and nothing really happens by accident. We are always in the place that is perfect for us to learn what we most need to learn. "When the student is ready, the teacher appears." When we are ready, the situation is presented to show us exactly what we are to learn and grow with at this point in our life. The people are there to help us move forward, to teach us, and to support us.


Today, take time to realise that you are in a perfect place for the lessons that you are learning, for the healing that you are doing, and for the growth that you are ready to make at this point in your life.
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Reply #69 - 15.09.2003 at 11:37:39
 
DEADNESS IN RELATIONSHIP CAN BE HEALED THROUGH GIVING


Deadness in our relationship means we are stuck, tired, and that we have been in sacrifice. We can make a new choice here. We can choose to give ourself more and move out of some of our busyness to make truer contact. True giving moves us forward and allows us to receive. Our giving allows us to feel the greatness of our generosity; it allows us to feel our best self. The more we give, the more we know who we truly are. Sometimes, when we feel we have nothing left to give, if we ask for Heaven's help, we find we have just what is needed, just enough to move us forward and get us back in the flow again.


Today, take a moment to close your eyes, and imagine the Universe pouring down all kinds of energy and light. As you are filled with this energy, feel how you are motivated to give, especially in certain areas. What are they? Maybe you are called to give very simple things. Even the simple things can show your love. Smiley
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Reply #70 - 17.09.2003 at 01:19:20
 
COMPLAINING IS INFERIORITY IN THE FORM OF ARROGANCE


Our complaining comes out of a sense of inferiority, a sense that we do not have much power in the situation. Complaining takes the form of arrogance. We feel above the situation, as if this should not be happening to us. Our complaint is a verbal or mental attack on the situation that is happening. In our arrogance, we expect things to change, and for others to change to meet our needs, but we are the one being asked to change. One of the ways in which we could easily change, and feel better about ourself, is to give ourself some recognition, value, and respect. As we change in this inner way, the outside situation begins to reflect the change.


Today, take a close look at yourself. What are you complaining about? Where are you complaining to yourself? These are just areas where you are reinforcing a sense of inferiority. Take a step forward, or choose to value yourself more, because as you do, the situation that you feel stuck in will change.
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Reply #71 - 18.09.2003 at 15:12:55
 
EVERY BLESSING I GIVE BLESSES ME


Whenever we wish someone the best or give someone love, we feel good. Every blessing we give is a blessing that we give to ourself. Every time we help someone, the help we give them, and the healing they reach gets added to our life.


Today, close your eyes and allow to come to your mind people who need your blessing, who need your love sent to them, who need the power of your mind added to their life. As you give to them, feel how good you feel. Know that your giving multiplies the power of your blessing. Throughout the day, any time you meet someone - people on the street, people you pass by, people at work - just bless them.
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Reply #72 - 19.09.2003 at 12:09:40
 
CONSIDERING HOW HARD IT SEEMS TO BE TO CHANGE WITHIN MYSELF, IT IS FOOLISH TO EXPECT TO CHANGE SOMEONE ELSE


Considering how hard it seems for us to create change within ourself, our desire to change someone else is foolish. We only need look at our own track record in this area to see how well we have done. Even when we do succeed, we lose, because the person loses their attractiveness for us. The easiest way to get someone to change is to change ourself. To move forward ourself is an irresistible call to our partner to join us.


Today, be willing to change yourself. Who is the main person in your life whom you want to be different? This very person represents an area in you that has been hardened and unwilling to change. Ask for Heaven's help in stepping forward to give this very thing that would have them be different. Take the step forward yourself, and be willing to give what you wanted of someone else. Your happiness is at stake and it is in your hands.
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Reply #73 - 20.09.2003 at 11:05:16
 
IF I DON'T HAVE SOMETHING IN MY LIFE, IT IS BECAUSE I AM IN A POWER STRUGGLE


When there is something we think we want in our life, and we don't have, it is because we are in a fight with someone. Power struggle is just a way of holding ourself back because we are actually afraid of what we think we want. This power struggle is really a place where we are using this person to avoid the real issue, which is the fear beneath it. Letting go of the power struggle would allow us to have that something in our life.


Today, let go of the power struggle. It is not true anyhow. Sit down, and divide a sheet of paper into three columns. In the first column, list what it is you want in your life. For each item, ask yourself, "Who am I in power struggle with? Who am I fighting?" (The answers "myself" or "everyone" is a form of avoidance.) Whoever comes into your mind, write it in the next column beside the item. (It could be your parents, someone who is dead, your partner or God.) Now, would you rather have the power struggle, or all of these things you really want? In the third column next to each person, write down what the fear is that holds you back from what you want. Be willing to move through the fear, because as you do, you are opening yourself to have what you want in your life.
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Reply #74 - 22.09.2003 at 11:24:54
 
MY EXPECTATIONS COMPENSATE FOR HIDDEN NEEDS


Our expectations come out of our demands which come from our needs; therefore, our expectations are a defence against our needs. They are a way of acting as if we are not dependent. Acting in an independent mode, we demand the situation move toward our picture of how reality should be, but any type of defence, expectation included, always leads to failure, and actually brings about the very thing it was trying to defend against. Our expectations eventually lead us to frustration or disappointment, a place where we begin to experience our own needs and neediness.


Today, practice giving up your demands and truly communicating about what you need; often, communicating about it satisfies the need itself. Your demand is a clue to the area of your need. Basically, all of these needs cover up old feelings of sadness, abandonment, and lack of bonding. Your communication is the beginning of bonding again. Even if communication does not succeed in fulfilling your needs, it will give you the confidence to deal with them openly without trying to control others.
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