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ANY JUDGEMENT AGAINST OTHERS IS A JUDGEMENT AGAINST MYSELF
We cannot judge unless we are feeling guilty about something. Otherwise, we would simply see that a mistake has been made and, with our support, it can easily be corrected. When we feel guilty about a mistake or something similar we have repressed, then our guilt will come out as a judgement against someone else. This will keep us stuck with our guilt and what we have judged. If we will only forgive, we will not have to search our subconscious mind to find where all our hidden guilt is. Forgiveness not only releases our partner or the person we have judged, it re-establishes their innocence, and it re-establishes our innocence. What we, or they, have done is not a sin. It is just a mistake. A mistake can be corrected, but a sin is almost impossible to correct. We obsess about a sin, coming back to it again and again in our mind until eventually we bury our guilt and project it onto others. This, of course, is a situation that keeps us from growing.
Today, take a look at the person you are judging the most. Just for a moment, imagine that the very thing you are judging them for is true about you. Dwell on that quality until you actually begin to feel, "Yes, this is guilt I have hidden away, but this is not true about me, either. I'm not going to hold this against them, because I'm not going to hold it against myself." Getting in touch with that hidden feeling and burning it, or just refusing to hold it against them so you are set free, allows the whole situation to move forward.
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