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If it hurts, it's not love
24.07.2003 at 16:05:42
 

Našla eno krasno stran ki ti najključno izbere misel:
http://www.gaia-mind.com/interact/random_hurts.asp



LOVE IS GIVING EVERYTHING, WHILE HOLDING ON TO NOTHING

Love does not ask for security, love just asks to be able to love. Nothing can stop our love. No matter if the person rejects us, or if they run away from us, they cannot stop us from loving them. Love asks for no guarantees. Love asks for no insurance. Love just wants to love, to give everything. In that love is a birthing, a fire that purifies. In that love is the greatness of being. In that love is all vision and purpose in life. The love that we give opens us to a new level of feeling, and a new level of joy.

Today, give by letting go. Be willing to let go in any areas where you have looked for insurance, or for some formal way of holding on. Imagine giving yourself totally, one hundred percent, all of you, for when you do, there is no need for control.
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Reply #1 - 24.07.2003 at 16:29:36
 
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HAPPINESS THAT COMES FROM WITHIN CANNOT BE LOST

The happiness that is generated within us cannot be taken away. If, however, we depend on outer things for our happiness, we lose it when those things change. As we are willing to keep generating the happiness within and give it, even in difficult times, the happiness in our relationship will never be lost. When we give love and happiness, especially in difficult situations, we heal and grow immensely; our joy is increased.

Today, look at any situation where your happiness seems to be dependent on outside things. With a little shift, give that happiness from within you. When you are generating happiness, everyone gets the benefit, everyone is nurtured, and everyone moves forward.
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Reply #2 - 24.07.2003 at 20:21:55
 
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PAIN IS AN AREA WHERE I HAVE CUT THE LINES OF RELATEDNESS


Pain is a place where we have removed ourself from the situation because it seemed too difficult, where we have pulled back from others because we didn't like what they were doing. By deciding not to recognise the relationship, we cut ourself off and we are suffering as a result. Even years later, we suffer as we get in touch with subconscious places where we cut the threads of connection with old friends and family members, or with parts of ourself.


Today, see who comes to your mind as someone with whom you are called to reconnect. Reach out to them and extend yourself so you can remove the pain you are experiencing. Allow yourself to feel the connection with all of those people as you mend the lines of relatedness.
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Reply #3 - 25.07.2003 at 12:01:48
 
ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE NO-FAULT RELATIONSHIPS

Everyone is doing the very best they can given their inner and outer circumstances. If we begin to look at relationships as no-fault where no one is to blame, then we begin to look at relationships in a true light. Any time there is blame, a relationship stops growing and begins to die. The faults we see in the world or in others is really the reflection of the hidden, or not so hidden, faults in ourself. If we look at all of our relationships as no-fault relationships, then we will keep progressing in every relationship we have.

Today, make a decision for all of your relationships to become no-fault. Make a list of all the places where you have blame going towards someone. You will probably find you have some sort of judgement or blame going toward everyone around you. Your willingness to see them and yourself as innocent allows everyone to move forward and receive more.
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Reply #4 - 25.07.2003 at 22:02:55
 
Uh, bere mi misli... Shocked Cheesy

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Reply #5 - 27.07.2003 at 08:09:54
 
GUILT ALWAYS HIDES FEAR


Guilt is a place where we have made a monument to a mistake and left the path of life to worship at this monument. It has us withdraw and, then, withholds us from the people we love. We may feel we have made a mistake in relation to our partner and now feel guilty about it, but guilt not only reinforces the mistake, it starves our partner of the very love and nurturing they need. Forgiving ourself cuts through the guilt and allows us to give the love and nurturing. Guilt keeps us stuck like the great super glue of life; the primary reason for our guilt is so we don't have to move forward and face the next step. Our willingness to allow the next step to emerge cuts through fear in much the same way that forgiveness cuts through guilt.


Today, consider how you have used your guilt, or bad feelings, to hold yourself back because you are afraid of the future. Look at how you have been living in the past because you are afraid the future will be the same. Be willing to release your guilt so the future can reveal a greater horizon and call you forward to it; you have no need to be afraid of your future. Make a choice to no longer be held hostage to a mistake that you have turned into self-punishment by arrogantly belittling yourself and making life all about you. Life is not about you, personally, it is about happiness or the healing that brings about happiness for you. Guilt refuses to learn this lesson. Your choice to release your guilt (and hidden guilt where we blame others by making them guilty) is your willingness to be happy.
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Reply #6 - 27.07.2003 at 13:44:50
 
evo men tut tale gaia stranica bere misli 8) Shocked

WORKING TOO HARD IN THE PRESENT IS BECAUSE I HAVE NOT LET GO OF THE PAST


Working too hard is a compensation for bad feelings. Often, we become so good at our work that when we work, we feel we are our best self, but workaholism points to something from the past we have not let go of. It means there is some kind of judgement, conflict, or pain; there is some kind of old feeling that we are still hanging on to. As we let it go, we naturally move into a place of balancing our work situation where we work just enough, and have the courage to deal with whatever feelings come up from within us. Our willingness to find what we are still hanging on to from the past and let it go, allows us to work in a way that is much truer and more effective.


Today, examine situations where you seem to be working too hard, where life seems to be too much of a burden. Realise that this is an area where you have not let go of something, where you carry a grievance. Ask yourself what that is. Be willing to let it go, now, because your grievance is killing you.
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Reply #7 - 29.07.2003 at 09:46:16
 
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HEAVEN CAN ONLY BE ENTERED TWO BY TWO

Heaven is a state of consciousness full of joy, love and ecstasy. Only through forgiveness, surrender and creativity, do we give ourself fully and enter that state of love that opens Heaven. All these things - forgiveness, surrender, creativity - involve togetherness. Heaven can only be entered two by two. While every grievance holds us both back and locks us in hell, our forgiveness frees both ourself and the other to enter Heaven. Whereas hell is a state in consciousness of feeling utterly alone and tortured, Heaven is a state of sharing and oneness with others.

Today, let come into your mind the person who can best lead you into Heaven. It could be someone you are having the hardest time with, or it could be the person that you are loving the most. Feel yourself bridging the gap between that person and you. Feel yourself forgiving them, reaching out for them, accepting them, and drawing them into you. Feel the light within you joining and, as you do, feel that sense of joy within you grow.
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Reply #8 - 29.07.2003 at 13:51:30
 
Sticks and stones may brake your bones, but love will always hurt you.(Shaun Ryder)
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Reply #9 - 29.07.2003 at 13:59:36
 
t wrote on 29.07.2003 at 13:51:30:
but love will always hurt you.(Shaun Ryder)



če si skoz to dopoveduješ... Wink
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Reply #10 - 29.07.2003 at 14:05:45
 
m wrote on 29.07.2003 at 13:59:36:
če si skoz to dopoveduješ... Wink

a ce bi si pa kej druzga dopovedval (sugeriral) bi se pa tist zgodil?
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Reply #11 - 29.07.2003 at 14:45:01
 
m wrote on 29.07.2003 at 13:59:36:
če si skoz to dopoveduješ... Wink




ne izven konteksta  Wink



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Reply #12 - 30.07.2003 at 10:49:07
 
WHEN I JOIN OTHERS IN THEIR PLACE OF ISOLATION, THEY HEAL AND I RECEIVE A GIFT

When people around us have withdrawn and isolated themselves because the experiences of life have been so painful, we are being asked to recognise that they need us. In fact, any problem of life is a result of this withdrawal. We can find that cave within them where they have hidden, and stand outside, pouring our love toward them, smiling because we love them enough to see where they've hidden themselves. As we join them, our love will move them toward and into healing. It will get them moving forward once again. As they move forward, responding to how much we've cared for them, they will come out of their isolation, illness, and pain. We also receive a gift.

Today, there is one person that you are called upon to reach out to, a person who has withdrawn. Let them come to your mind and, even before you begin to move toward them physically in any way, move toward them in your mind's eye. See yourself joining with them. Your caring, love, and responsiveness will make a world of difference to them. It will make a world of difference to you, too.
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Reply #13 - 30.07.2003 at 11:16:25
 
ANY JUDGEMENT AGAINST OTHERS IS A JUDGEMENT AGAINST MYSELF


We cannot judge unless we are feeling guilty about something. Otherwise, we would simply see that a mistake has been made and, with our support, it can easily be corrected. When we feel guilty about a mistake or something similar we have repressed, then our guilt will come out as a judgement against someone else. This will keep us stuck with our guilt and what we have judged. If we will only forgive, we will not have to search our subconscious mind to find where all our hidden guilt is. Forgiveness not only releases our partner or the person we have judged, it re-establishes their innocence, and it re-establishes our innocence. What we, or they, have done is not a sin. It is just a mistake. A mistake can be corrected, but a sin is almost impossible to correct. We obsess about a sin, coming back to it again and again in our mind until eventually we bury our guilt and project it onto others. This, of course, is a situation that keeps us from growing.


Today, take a look at the person you are judging the most. Just for a moment, imagine that the very thing you are judging them for is true about you. Dwell on that quality until you actually begin to feel, "Yes, this is guilt I have hidden away, but this is not true about me, either. I'm not going to hold this against them, because I'm not going to hold it against myself." Getting in touch with that hidden feeling and burning it, or just refusing to hold it against them so you are set free, allows the whole situation to move forward.
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Reply #14 - 31.07.2003 at 14:08:45
 
THE PURPOSE OF EVERY ENEMY IS TO BRING BACK A LONG-BURIED PIECE OF MY MIND


Enemies are of great benefit to us as we recognise that they embody a piece of us that we lost long ago. As we realise this, they can be a partner for us. Our willingness to forgive and trust in this, brings the split part of ourself back for us to fully integrate. The force of the energy that this enemy brings against us is always brought for our own healing. If we do not resist the energy, but allow it to move into us, we leap up to a higher level of consciousness. The amount of energy they throw against us actually reflects the amount of our own energy we use against ourself at a deeper level in our mind. The first step to healing is in recognising what our enemy is showing us. Then, as we appreciate them as someone who is giving us a signal about a long-lost piece of ourself that we have judged, it can be recovered.


Today, take a look at your enemy. What is the quality or qualities about them that you are fighting against? Have you ever acted in this way? If you cannot remember acting like this, was there anyone close around you who did act that way? What feeling would it take for you or anyone to be acting in this fashion? If you cannot identify with the feeling, then ask yourself what is the feeling underneath it that drove the behaviour? When you finally get to a feeling you can identify with, recognise you and your enemy are feeling the same thing. Allow this to be the bridge of compassion and commonality that joins you to this person who had been your enemy. The more you use the bridge, the more you understand and find your common purpose.
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