3. Phallic Stage (Age 4 - 5)

   Erogenous Zone in Focus: Genital

   Gratifying Activities: Masturbation and genital fondling

   Interaction with the Environment: This is probably the most challenging stage in a person's psychoséxual development. The key event at this stage, according to Freud, is the child's feeling of attraction toward the parent of the opposite séx, together with envy and fear of the same-séx parent. In boys, this situation is called the "Oedipus Complex" (aka the Oedipal Complex), named after the young man in a Greek myth who killed his father and married his mother, unaware of their true identities. In girls, it is called the "Electra Complex".

   Boys, in the midst of their Oedipus Complex, often experience intense "castration anxiety", which comes from the fear of punishment from the fathers for their desire for the mothers. Girls' Electra Complex involves "thingy envy". That is, according to Freud, the girl believes that she once had a thingy but that it was removed. In order to compensate for its loss, the girl wants to have a child by her father. Success or failure in the Oedipus conflict is at the core of either normal psychological development or psychological disorder. If a child is able to successfully resolve the conflict, he or she will have learnt to control their envy and hostility and begin to identify with and model after the parent of their own séx, and are ready to move on to the next developmental stage.

   Phallic Fixation:

       *   For men: Anxiety and guilty feelings about séx, fear of castration, and narcissistic personality.
       *   For women: It is implied that women never progress past this stage fully and will always maintain a sense of envy and inferiority, although Freud asserted no certainty regarding women's possible fixations resulting from this stage. Similarly, Freud admitted uncertainty on the females' situation when he constructed the "thingy envy" theory in the first place.

exo ne vem. tud ne vem zakaj stari kozli jahajo mlade kobile.
exo mal je vseeno poenostavljeno tole.
včasih leta niso merilo za nič.
včasih ne pomeni nič, koliko si star, ampak kako zgledaš in kaj ter koliko imaš v glavi.
če gre samo za seks, imaš mogoče prav. če pa gre za nek ljubezenski odnos si 100% falil.
Kaj naj se pa menim z mladičem?
pa še nekaj.
osebno bi imela raje 10 let mlajšega žrebca, ker bi istočasno umrla, ker vas ženske preživimo. evo to.
pa tudi osebno imam raje mlado meso, kot pa kakšnega ata. sem enga mela očeta, pa bi ne rabla še kakega.
pa seksat z mladim dečkom ni sploh slobo. vem sem probala.
sam to.
lp
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....ka pa jaz vem, ti si prešprical verouk, jaz pa zgodovino, tako da ne bi znal podrobnejših odgovorov, ampak pravijo, da imajo stene ušesa... hi hi No, saj je vseeno, ne morem te tukaj razgaliti pred vsemi, a zgledam taka "baraba"?     (pozabi Iga, bom tiho kot miška, razen če mi kdo plača, ki je bolj radoveden in bi rad zvedel kaj več). Lahko pa me ti preplačaš, pa bom tiho...

ah, saj je vseeno....  

exodus wrote on 23.09.2004 at 13:58:18:


A veš, da sploh nisem šprical verouka. Sem bil priden.  

Jaz ti ne bi nič plačeval. Ti me kar razkrij. Itak nimam kaj skrivat. 8)

Vidim pa, da si ti redno obiskoval predmete spletkarstvo, intrigarstvo in podobne zadeve.

exodus wrote on 08.08.2004 at 17:52:05:


hahaha...tale konc pa je smešen že zabaven ...ne exo, iskreno povedan si eden najbolj iskrenih piscev jaz verjamem, ki nima dlake na jeziku in pove kjerkoli ravno tisto kar misli, upam, dase ne motim
in to je treba sam spoštovat

jah no, kar se tvoje "kobilice" tiče, hehe, je lahko sam vesela, da jo kličeš po omenjenih imenih, ker jaz sem iz strani mojega najdražjega tud: driskica, uška
muc (no čezdali bolš mi gre). pa sej ga razumem, če sm kdaj sitna, sam tele driskice se je tud sicer mal preveč navadu, men pa niti najmanj ne diši   ...on je kao drekc pol, sam to ni isto

kar pa zadeva tole temo:
jap tud jest mam starejšega dečkota, tam 7 let nekje in res se nekak marsičesa na novo učim....imela sem kazga mlajšega prej, pa noben ni bil mlajši od mene, sicer pa upam, da bom ostala pr tem kar sem, ker mi je res ful lepo in nama kar dobr sklapa in seveda upam in nekak verjamem, da on čuti tud tako

zaenkrat we kar rules on! evo half pa pol english....
leta pa sicer niso bla nikol pomembna
p.s.: naj omenim samo še to, da so tud 25 -letniki lahko do oknca nezreli in se jimpribližno ne sanja, kaj bi pravzaprav radi, lahko pa za 19 letnika velja ravno obratno, če ga življenje v to nekako potisne

Ker so starejse boljse? Pac se boljse pocutim ob njih...vlivajo vec zaupanja, so bolj spontane, se znajo stvari lotit na pravi nacin, izžarevajo več seksapila, ponavadi najdem pac vec skupnih tock...to bi blo to. Mlajse pac nisem nikol mel.